Why not try to make a list of the biggest and scariest risks that you have ever taken and that you are happy you did. Look at that list and ask yourself, " Did I make everything perfect before I took these risks". I bet the answer is NO
Read MoreWhen the initial contact is started from a negative mindset, what are the real possibilities of a positive outcome? Not very high and more often than not you leave the situation in a worse frame of mine then when the encounter started. When we approach this same situation from a positive mindset the chances of a positive outcome for both of you increases.
Read MoreIt's time for this negative behavior and attitude to stop and the only way that will happen is if we step up and make it stop.
Read MoreLetting go can sometimes make us feel like we will lose something, when in reality the memories will always be there when you need or want them. Acceptance allows us to grow an inner strength that was not there before. When we let go, we grow.
Read MoreDo you stop or keep going? Or do you think of a third option? Adapt, figure it out and adapt. So i decided to adapt.
Read MoreInstead of fighting or running away, most of us actually just freeze. We don't do anything, we don't react, we don't think and most of all we don't breathe. When we get into these stressful situations we end up shortening our breathing patterns dramatically and stop breathing through our diaphragm.
Read MoreAdversity isn't about something just about something awful or something that is a pain in the ass. Adversity is nature's way of making us stronger inside and out. Adversity is how we learn the most about ourselves and those around us. Adversity teaches us who we can count on when the proverbial $#!% hits the fan.
Read MoreYou just need to find the pivot that works for you and you must be willing TO DO THE WORK that is needed to make that mindset shift.
Read MoreThe idea behind this test is to help you find out what you could or should be doing that helps contribute to making your life feel fulfilled and happy
Read MoreI am not a fan at all of arrogant and ignorant people. They have a narcissistic attitude and they rely on you to feed their narcissism it to keep them going. I have no time nor patience for this kind of mindset invading mine or my family or my friends lives.
Read MoreWe all share this space called life. We interact with each other everyday. Our moods, our behaviors, our actions, what we say to each other has a direct effect on everything around us. This concept goes directly to the heart of "Actions Speak Louder Than Words". When we try to always try to talk our way through a problem or issue or more importantly a teaching moment, a large majority of what we say is either lost in translation or just blocked out.
Read MoreBut for those of us who believe in the Long Run, there is no quitting. There is only, "Find Another Way". I have always said your goals need to be just as important to you as the things you value most in life. Your goals need to be a part of you no matter how long they take to accomplish.
Read MoreWe may feel we don't have enough time during the day when in actuality we have way more time than we think. When we don't think we have enough time, that is us just being to lazy to look at our daily schedules and changing them up to create that time needed for ourselves. Basically we are making excuses.
Read MoreWhen you let go of your perceived limitations great things are possible every single day. When we wake up every day we have no clue what the world is going to give us, be it good or bad.
Read MoreInspiration for the start of a new year!
Read MoreThere are no finishing lines when it comes to goals and achieving them. Goals are meant to be built upon each and every goal. There are no shortcuts or gimmicks or fads that will outlast the long run.
Read MoreA popular goal is getting back to living healthy and getting back into shape. Great goal, but a huge goal as well. There are so many aspects to becoming healthy again. There is the obvious physical part, but there is also the mental and emotional pieces to becoming healthy again.
Read MoreThe goal becomes so important that you will not allow any excuses get in the way. You will find away to work towards your goal everyday.
Read MoreThis goal you want to achieve for 2020 needs to become a non-negotiable part of your life. Meaning no excuses. Meaning I have to do this everyday or I will be pissed at myself because I am allowing myself to fall short and that is not acceptable. When you get to this point your 2020 goal has the greatest chance of being achieved.
Read MorePlease make it a point to say thank you today. Even if you don't think it's necessary, I guarantee you the people receiving your thanks and gratitude will get more from your thanks then you can imagine.
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